Guide to knowing if the friendship is worth keeping , or need to ditch her-for our sake .
Finding friendship can be hard to do , even if we have bad friends or frail friendships .
The promise-breaker
Someone constantly dissapoints and break promises . For her its nothing and love to cancel plans (several times) last minute and leaving us hanging . we have talk it over and have reconfirm the plans many time with remindres but she keep doing the same things .
Dump her - she keeps blowing us off . we might not even register on her list of priorities , so why we should keep her as a friend ?
The problem-maker
Someone that always talk about her problems and expects us to only listen her problem and not listen to our problem . she talk about herself more and more .
Dump her - She cant stop being so self-absorbed and gets offended if us talks about their problems . Its as if no one else's problems could possibly be as big as hers .
The Competitive chick
Its a problem when she tries to fight with you in everything including school , boys and even in fashionn ! If you are willing to accept her competitive nature and help her develop a better self-image , it wont be a big problem for us .
Dump her - She just thinks shes better than everyone else , including you .she jealous with everything that you have . If she cant see how shes bringing you down , you have to let her go .
The emotional
She remembers every birthday and gets deeply hurt if you forget that its her birthday . She makes you feel like you're bad friend even if you're not ! If we try compromising by working out but she doesnt want to cooperate let her go .
Dump her - Friendships do require care and attention , but shes not a babyy ! you dont have to cater to her every demanddd .
The Blabbermouthhh
Telling her " promise to me that you wont ever tell everyone about this sectre its between you and me" is like giving her permission to spread your secrets like paparazi - she just cant keep her mouth shuttt !
Dump her - She laughs it off and tells you're being paranoid . it is not okay for her to spread your deepest secrets . its must be ashamed if her biggest secret have been revealed .
The backstabber
Whether its something as obvious as starting a rumour about you , sabotaging you , it is clear that she is out to hurt you on purpose . If she hangs up the phone or leaves texts and emails unanswered , then she is truly not worth your time .
Dump her - even if you're not her victim , you might want to think twice about being friends with someone who is capable of treating others like that .
The user
She ask you for favours all the time and doesnt help you when you need it most . Friendship are about give and take , and if shes always the one taking , you will know she doesnt have your interest or feelings in mind .
Dump her - is this the kind of friend you want ? just dont wasting your time relying on type of this friend .
